Some weeks ago I flagged a workshop with a well known expert on Child Development and Behaviour, Maggie Dent, called Mothering our Boys. I know many of you have shown interest in this workshop, to be held in Orange on Saturday 28 June. As the two hour workshop is sold out, I thought I might share with you some of her thoughts around the importance of creating a sense of safety and predictability for your child. She explains this through looking at the biology of a part of the human brain: the amygdala.
The amygdala is a complex structure of cells nestled in the middle of the brain, adjacent to the hippocampus (which is associated with memory formation). It plays a key role in processing emotions and emotional reactions.
'Appeasing the amygdala
Creating effective bedtime routines and habits are good for everyone in the home. When our children need to crawl into our beds because they feel unsafe, rather than viewing this as attention-seeking behaviour or bad behaviour, we can see they are coming to us because they feel safe, if we view it through the lens of the amygdala.
They are responding to a message from their brain, exactly as we are all biologically wired to do.
Sometimes this fear response can happen when the nervous system has become overloaded maybe due to the end-of-term exhaustion, friendship dramas, changes to teachers, assessment fatigue or even a growth spurt, especially for our boys. When the nervous system becomes depleted, it perceives a threat and we know that we automatically respond to significant threat in one of four ways.
Fight
Flight
Freeze
Fawn
As parents, our main job is to help our kids identify what may be driving the underlying depletion of the nervous system. Often it is an unmet need and that can be tricky to figure out with kids of any age. When we can work with our children to identify what is causing their amygdala to activate, we can then help them to create a new, safer predictable way of managing the threat.
If your child is struggling because there has been a change in their life, chat with them about how it can take time to develop a healthy sense of safety when things are different.
Talking about change, especially transitions, from as early as you can, can help prepare your child for other big transitions like going to high school, or taking up a new extracurricular activity or moving house.
When we explain things through the lens of how our amygdala works, and that its job is to help us feel safe and be safe, it can help our children understand that it takes time for something to become more predictable.
The amygdala in the tween/teen years
As our kids go through adolescence, their body changes, their brain changes, their hormones change – and change triggers stress so it’s natural for teens to have a heightened stress response.
Preparing your teens for the impact of these changes with good information can decrease the need for the amygdala to panic.
Explore with them some of the things that can happen on the bridge to adulthood. Maybe even share some of your stories of how you struggled at times. Then, acknowledge that they may have times they’re going to experience heightened levels of stress and that is not a bad thing – it is a sign that their brain is doing its job. Then you can explore some ideas about what might help to ease that stress and make them feel better. You can help them make new habits.
Building predictability, especially during times of expected and unexpected change, helps everyone cope better.
A brain can take time to adjust to a new sense of normal, and some changes, particularly the loss of a loved one, a pet, a home or a traumatic experience, can take a very long time for us to adjust to. However, we are wired to survive and only when we feel safe, can we experience the gifts of joy and delight. So please be kind to your amygdala and remember the power of predictability in your daily life.' (Maggie Dent)
Grow Your Mind
On this notion of teaching our students how their brains function, several of our teachers will be trialling a program in Semester Two called 'Grow Your Mind'. If we find this program enhances our students' understanding of themselves and their sense of wellbeing, we will adopt the program across the whole school in 2026. This program relates human behaviours and feelings to parts of the brain and their functions. The brain is introduced as 'Four Animals' (image below) and unpacks for our students how the behaviour of the each animal is very similar to how the brain reacts in certain circumstances. The program also teaches our students to rate problems, and avoid catastrophising.
We will share more on this early next term, and hope that by using these metaphors, our students will be further supported with the language they need to describe their feelings.
End of Term
Term Two concludes next Friday and Term Three commences for our students on Tuesday 22 July. On Monday 21 July our teachers will complete a workshop called the 'Behavioural Toolkit' to enhance their professional knowledge around classroom management and understanding diversity. They will also undertake annual Resuscitation Training, which is a qualification that we are mandated to update each year.
Reports will go out early next week and you will be notified by Compass when they are available to view. I would like to thank our teachers for their proactivity in contacting many parents by phone or interview to explain the reports/student grades before they are published. Sometimes we see a temporary drop in student attainment at the beginning of each Stage of Learning, that is, in Year One, Year Three and Year Five, as the complexity of the curriculum jumps a notch. Remember that you are welcome at any time to make an appointment to meet with your child's class teacher through the office staff.
I am travelling to Europe for 3 weeks to spend time with my UK family, so Rachel Cranney will be Acting Principal in Week One of Term Three. I wish you all a restful and happy term break, however you are spending it. A whole two weeks without having to pack school lunches has got to be something to look forward to!
Take care of yourselves and each other,
Gayle Stratton
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Assistant Principal
Student Reports for Semester One
St Mary's K-6 Semester One student reports will be available early next week on compass. Reporting is the process of providing feedback to parents/carers about student progress.
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Religious Education
Claire Nicholson
Religious Education Coordinator
First Holy Commuion: We joyfully congratulate the students who have recently received their First Holy Communion! This is a sacred and significant step in their faith journey, and we are so proud of their preparation, reverence, and devotion. Thank you to the families, teachers, and the parish community who supported them along the way. May this special encounter with Jesus in the Eucharist strengthen their love for Christ and deepen their commitment to living a life of faith. Let us continue to keep these young communicants in our prayers as they grow in grace and continue to walk with Christ.
Next term we will celebrate our grandparents and other significant adults in our lives at a liturgy on Friday 25 July at 12:30pm, followed by a family picnic. Please bring rugs to put down on the grass for your comfort. In the event of wet weather we will 'picnic' in the hall.
Catholics acknowledge 26 July as the Feast Day of St. Anne and St. Joachim. These saints are honoured as the earthly grandparents of Jesus. As information about Saints Anne and Joachim comes from the Gospel of James and Catholic legend, there is little real knowledge about their lives. However, the patronage of Saint Anne includes grandparents, couples without children, women in labor, and women unable to conceive. Likewise, Saint Joachim is considered the patron of grandfathers, fathers, and grandparents.
Grandparents have significant roles in society as people of wisdom and history. Their experience in faith and life has enriched their judgment and their abilities to share this perspective with future generations. This is how Pope Francis felt about grandparents:
How important grandparents are for family life, for passing on the human and religious heritage which is so essential for each and every society! How important it is to have intergenerational exchanges and dialogue, especially within the context of the family. The Aparecida Document says, “Children and the elderly build the future of peoples: children because they lead history forward, the elderly because they transmit the experience and wisdom of their lives” (No. 447). This relationship and this dialogue between generations is a treasure to be preserved and strengthened!
Students Enjoy a Wacky Live Performance of The Twits
This week, our Year 2, 3, 4 and 6 students were treated to a hilarious live performance of The Twits, based on the much-loved book by Roald Dahl. The show brought Mr and Mrs Twit’s silly pranks and outrageous antics to life on stage.
The actors used simple costumes, funny voices and lots of energy to retell the story in an exciting and engaging way. It was a fantastic opportunity for students to see a book they have read come alive in such a fun way.
MUSIC PERFORMANCE
Students Experience the Magic of Musica Viva: Lost Histories
This week, our students were captivated by a live performance of Lost Histories, presented by Musica Viva. The talented musicians took students on a fascinating journey through music, culture and storytelling.
Through a vibrant mix of instruments, rhythms, and engaging narration, the performers shared stories of people and places. Students were drawn in by the rich sounds and meaningful messages, gaining a deeper appreciation for music.
It was an enriching and inspiring experience. A big thank you to Mrs Abbey for organising it and Musica Viva for sharing their music.
Through listening to and watching live performances our students are fulfilling some of their learning outcomes (listening - Music; appreciating - Drama) from the NSW Creative Arts syllabus content in a fun and engaging way.
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Year Group
Grade Reps
Event
Kindy
Michaela Wilson & Alice Weily
Kindy Orientation
Year 1
Sharon Henry & Stacey Tracey
Kindy Welcome Morning tea-"Tissues & Tim Tams" & Father's Day Gift Stall
Year 2
Olivia Day Gorham & Amanda Fragar
Father's Day Breakfast
Year 3
Renee Davis & Lizzy Jaensch
Mother's Day Breakfast
Year 4
Olivia Day Gorham & Renee Davis
Easter Egg Raffle
Year 5
Jess McGrath & Katrina Holway
Mother's Day Gift Stall
Year 6
Kellie Pickering, Kym Flitcroft & Angela Duncan
Kindy Welcome Morning Tea -"Tissues & Tim Tams "& Year 6 farewell
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Sports News
Bathurst Diocesan Community Sport
Dear Parents,
Keep up to date with sporting events and achievements across the Bathurst Diocese. Search CEBD community sport or use the following link.
SEVERE REACTIONS TO ‘NUTS’ & ‘EGGS’ As some of our students have a ‘nut’ and/or ‘egg’ allergy, we ask that nuts, nut products and eggs NOT be packed as part of school snacks and lunches. Sometimes even contact with nuts or eggs can trigger the severe reaction. This severe allergy is called ANAPHYLAXIS and can be life-threatening. Please, NO eggs, peanut butter, Nutella, nut products, etc.
(Check those labels to see that products do not contain nuts.)
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School-Wide Positive Behaviour for Learning (SPB4L)
SPB4L
KIND WORDS
I will use kind words. When we use kind words, everyone feels respected.
HANDS AND FEET
I willkeep my hands and feet to myself. It is important that, everyone feels safe and respected. Everyone deserves to feel safe at school.
Uniform Expectations
We continue our school-wide focus is on uniform expectations. The school uniform is a distinguishing symbol of belonging to St Mary’s Catholic Primary School and it is expected that students wear it with pride at all times. The assistance of parents and staff is sought in maintaining a high standard of dress and presentation by all students.
Students not wearing the correct or incomplete uniform are required to provide a note from a parent/guardian giving reasons and an expected date when the uniform will be corrected.
Uniforms
Summer
Winter
Sport Uniform
Girls and Boys
Navy polo shirt with logo
Navy shorts - with SMCPS insignia
White socks
Joggers
Navy polo shirt with logo
Navy track pants
Navy sports jumper with logo
White socks
Joggers
Regular Uniform
Girls
Pink checked dress & White Socks
OR
White dress shirt
Navy Shorts & Navy Socks
Black shoes
Maroon tunic or trousers
Maroon v-neck jumper
Fawn long-sleeve shirt
School tie
Knee-high fawn socks or fawn tights
Black shoes
Regular Uniform
Boys
School blue short-sleeve shirt
Grey shorts
Grey socks
Black shoes
Maroon v-neck jumper
School blue long-sleeve shirt
Grey trousers and socks
School tie
Black shoes
Hat – Navy bucket hat with school logo
Black shoes - leather, polishable, classic style, low heel - no black joggers
Socks - please check the correct colour socks are worn - especially girls, fawn socks with maroon trousers, please
Shorts - no cargo, corduroy, jeans type, Canterbury or polycotton/cotton shorts
Trousers - grey poly/viscose serge trousers only - no cargo, drill type trousers.
Winter coat - navy school jacket with logo
In cold weather, children are permitted to wear scarves and/or beanies in the playground, provided that these are plain, dark blue, or maroon. (beanies or scarves with logos or writing are not permitted). Thank you.
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Health Matters
Medication at School- Parental Advice
If your child requires medication that needs to be administered during school hours, please bring the medication to the school office, where it is stored safely. This includes asthma inhalers.
Medication must be authorised by a Medical practitioner with a letter
Students can come to the office at an arranged time to have the medication administered by trained First Aid Officers.
The office does not have Panadol, unless parents supply and complete a form for their child only.
Thank you
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Student Wellbeing
Children with communication devices such as iPhones and Smart Watches must be handed to the school office in the morning before class and collected at the end of the day. This includes any device capable of taking photos.
Please support your child to meet this school requirement.
If you need to contact your child during school hours please call the school office.
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Community News
Honk! Jr
Orange Theatre Company Proudly Presents Honk Jr. The Musical — A Heartwarming Celebration of What Makes Us Unique
Orange Theatre Company is thrilled to announce its upcoming production of Honk Jr. The Musical, a delightful, family-friendly adaptation of Hans Christian Andersen’s classic tale, The Ugly Duckling. Honk Jr. is packed with memorable songs, hilarious characters, and moments that will touch the heart. But beyond the fun, this production shares an important message: it’s a story of tolerance, kindness, and acceptance. As audiences follow Ugly’s journey to find his place in the world, they’ll be reminded that our differences are what make us special — and that true beauty lies within.
We are especially proud to announce the involvement of students from St. Mary’s Catholic Primary School who are helping bring this story to life: ● Lola Bell – Downy ● Eloise Flitcroft – Penny ● Eva Soley - Ensemble
We would love for members of the school community to come together and support these talented students, along with the rest of the amazing cast. We encourage families, staff, and friends to join us for an hour of laughter, inspiration, and great entertainment.
PERFORMANCE DETAILS 📅 When: Friday 11th July 2pm & 6:30pm, Saturday 12th July 2pm & 6:30pm, Sunday 13th July 6:30pm 📍 Venue: Orange Civic Theatre ️ Tickets: Adults at Children prices - all tickets $30, Book through TICKETEK 63938111 or https://premier.ticketek.com.au/shows/show.aspx?sh=OCTHONK25
Every ticket purchased helps celebrate the hard work and creativity of our students. Let’s pack the house and show our support!